Thursday, December 15, 2011

Most Important Post Ever -- MUST READ

This blog post is probably the most dear to me, and I will not have written much of it. Instead of writing my own blog account of this amazing opportunity for the youth I serve and how you can help, I have copied Cameron's very moving and personal description and posted it below. Remember as you read it that my feelings about this program are the same, my desires and hopes are the same, and that all of the volunteers listed below are working together (completely outside of normal working hours) to make this happen. Thank you for all of your help, love, and support! Merry Christmas. - Darryn / Auntie Zodwa

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Many of you have heard me rant about Teen Club. If you haven’t, then I have failed you: either as a friend or as a frenemy. Teen Club is a support group for HIV positive kids and teens; a support group that I have had the luck to be able to work with for the last two years here in Swaziland.


In my two and a half years in Peace Corps service, I have had nadirs and peaks in dealing with this world; I have had traumas and blessings. Working with Teen Club has been the richest and most satisfying work that I have ever done... that I probably will ever do... and it is with that in mind that I write to you today.


Nothing has changed either me or the content of my character as Teen Club has. I am forever indebted to them, all 1000 or more of them, for the way in which they have affected my life. They took a ragged, broken part of me and made it whole. They showed me that it doesn’t matter than I am goofy or weird, or that I like science too much; they showed me that as long as I act like an idiot, that I can make someone smile. They made me remember that as we walk through our bland adult lives, that the colours and the tastes and the loves and the hopes of the days jejune that we had once still exist around us. They showed me more about myself and the world than I ever thought I would know. They made me see the brilliance of the human condition, the spirit that embodies hope, and the reasons I really have to live and love and learn and lose and long and every other thing that makes life great. They have done for me more than any other.

These kids have changed my life. Now it is my turn to change theirs.


On July 22nd, 2012 the 19th annual International AIDS Conference will take place in the District of Columbia, in the good old United Stated of America. For the last five months, I have had the pleasure of working with Darryn Crocker, Allie Bailey Hughey, Kimberly Johnson, and Rachel Piper to pave the way for some of our teens to take part in this conference.



These teens are the future of Swaziland. I owe it to them to help give them what I can; to help build a brighter future for them.


As of last week, Baylor Texas Children’s Hospital [the organization that Baylor Clinic gets its funding through] put up a comment tab on their donation site. It was then that we began raising money to bring some of our bright, smart, outspoken teens to Washington D.C. to contribute in an international dialogue on what the future of HIV treatment, care and support will and should look like. As of last week we started making our dream a reality.


I stayed for them. I stayed because I believe in them. I stayed because I will make sure that they get to tell their stories at the XIX International AIDS Conference.


I want you to do two things right now: Step one, look at the picture above. I owe the kids, at least enough to ask you for five bucks to help them get to this conference. Step two, tell two people about this. It isn’t crazy to dream of being able to bring our kids to America. Even if it was, I would think it otherwise. This is doable. With your help – with the help of your families and co-workers and nephews and former room-mates – I can show some of these kids the Washington monument on my birthday, July 22nd, 2012, and know that I can die happy.

How to donate:

1. Go to this page (or swazilandteenclub.wordpress.com, which will link you there)

2. Click on “donate now”

3. Enter your donation information.

4. Click on the drop-down bar and select SWAZILAND TEEN CLUB. In the comments section you MUST write “AIDS CONFERENCE”. If you do not write that, your donation will go to other Teen Club activities. That is still nice, but it won’t help us get our kids to D.C.

5. Feel absurdly satisfied with your life as a whole. You are amazing. People love you. Hell, I think you are the coolest person I know. Go outside. You feel that sun on your face? Bet it feels pretty good. That’s good-karma sun right there. Need some coffee? No worries, hit that Starbuck’s down the street. When you roll into that drive-thru and throw 8 bucks at a cashier for two kinds of chocolaty drink, you are going to feel like a boss.



If you are a visual learner... then here you go!


From here you make it look like this.


Then like this. Do it like the pretty pictures say to.



This is all I want for Christmas. This is all I want for Hanukkah. This is all I want for my birthday next year (he said, begrudgingly, knowing he wouldn’t have a job in 2012 when he returns to America) and for Valentine’s Day and for Labour Day and for Secretary’s Day (that one seems a bit dated to me... is it still called Secretary's Day?) Don’t send me more packages. Don’t send me sweets. Just take that money and put it into this fund.


Do this for me and I promise that when I welcome these kids at the causeway next summer, that you will feel better than you have ever felt in your entire life.



Thank you kindly and happy holidays,


Cameron Price

Surviving Christmas

December 14th, 2011
8:36pm

I barely survived Christmas and it is only December 14th.

You had Black Friday with crazed mobs going for the last (insert whatever was popular this year – ibook thing - I don’t know. I’m in Africa). Well, I had almost 500 people descend upon one school yard and me looking for festive frolics and frivolity. Did you ever stop to think how that ibook felt? Something along the lines of, “AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH”.

This last weekend we had the Teen Club Christmas/Party. It was epic, and most certainly the biggest event that I have ever put together. All of the teens from the 5 different sites (1 new site is being run by MSF/Doctors Without Borders) got together at the Nazarene High School in Manzini for an end of the year bash. Planning for this massive shin dig has been in the works for a couple of months already. I was feeling pretty cocky about my mad organizational skills about two weeks out from the big day. Food had been ordered. Buses were hired. Donations were secured. Right on schedule. Then I was called into the Executive Director’s office…

We had been given an opportunity of a lifetime: the entire Christmas party would be paid for and then some by UNFPA!! All I would have to do is change almost everything that had been finalized and start from scratch by writing an entirely new budget (9 days til X-mas). Then losing all control of the decisions and especially the speed at which those decisions were made (5 days ‘til X-mas). Then having to create more educational activities around specific health topics required by our funding source (3 days til X-mas). Receiving supplies to do all of the above mentioned items (15 hours ‘til X-mas). Losing my mind, if you are under the assumption I had one to begin with, (28 minutes to X-mas). Then we just smiled and jumped in! T - ZERO minutes to X-mas happened at 7am this past Saturday when we arrived at the site … kids started arriving shortly after.

I ran around like a mad woman wearing green and red. I could tell you all about the snafus and obstacles that cropped up every few minutes, like the power outlet not working for the inflatable bouncy castle (that showed up 3 hours late) or the two classrooms that didn’t seem to have corresponding keys on the ring. I could tell you about the Santa that couldn’t make it or the transport money that was in E200 notes instead of E5 coins, but that is just seeing the yucky admin side of the day. Instead, I’d like to show you what my kids saw.

They got to the Nazarene High School and found a large tent in the parking lot blasting Christmas tunes. Inside were registration tables and a morning snack. Games were being played in a grassy area behind the new makeshift parking lot. At 10am everyone was gathered to listen to Auntie Zodwa (me) and my awesome friend and translator, Wandile, for beginning announcements. The teens couldn’t go to the carnival array of activities yet. They first had to pick up their new drawstring backpacks and ruler/pencil sets that said, “I’m the World’s Greatest”. Which, of course, they are.

Then it was off to the games! They had to make very tough decisions…”Should I get my face painted first or take a picture with Santa?” or “Would it be best to make this awesome Christmas craft or go play medication adherence jump rope?”. Yes, the educational games were still fun AND gave out candy! We had old favorites like Delaying Sexual Debut Limbo, HIV Knowledge Memory Game, Med Adherence Jump Rope, and Finding Support Fall Circle. When the kids had a moment in between the fun learning games they got to put on a fashion show, dance, play soccer, get a glass of juice, make a Christmas card, pose with Santa, jump on a colorful castle of air, get a candy cane painted on a cheek (flags and soccer teams came out later), or relax and talk with friends from camp that have been attending a different Teen Club site. At 12pm-ish everyone finished up gluing the last bulb on the construction paper Christmas tree or remembering where the correct answer card was to that HIV question and filed into the lecture hall. The MSF/Doctors Without Borders expert client drama group performed a skit about preventing mother to child transmission (PMTCT in acronym speak). Then Auntie Zodwa gave out the graduation certificates to our >19 year olds, new policy announcements for 2012, and appreciation to the Teen Leaders, adult volunteers, and everyone that made 2011 Teen Club possible. The Teen Club anthem, “World’s Greatest”, being performed by ~400 kids and ~60 volunteers was the most moving experience of my extension year so far. Amazing.

Everyone got hot food, cold drink, and a cookie before grabbing a baggy with exactly double the amount of transport money needed for them to make the return trip to their homestead which could have been located in anyone of the four regions of Swaziland. Armed with a neon colored backpack declaring their awesomeness, fun memories, health information, and holiday joy, they got back on the bus or public transport vehicle that brought them to the site just 5 hours before.

Sadly, I am still not allowed to post pictures on this blog of our Teen Club shenanigans. Thus you MUST go to swazilandteenclub.wordpress.com to see all of the wonders I described above. Below is the best representation of how I was feeling during the day, and why I need the vacation Cam and I are planning to Victory Falls for next week!


Taken at around 9am Saturday morning.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Where Did October Go?

November 7, 2011
1:22pm

I feel that many of my blogs this coming year are going to start with the same apologies for not getting an entry posted sooner. This blog is no exception. I’m quite shocked to type the date in at the top of the page! Where has the time gone? Why have I been so darn busy? Doesn’t October come after September? Hopefully this blog entry will shed some light on those questions, for my benefit and yours.

I blame work. Although my position at Baylor probably should not have to carry the full brunt of culpability when auditing my time, it sure took up a large part of it! The last month I have been flying solo after my September orientation. The five Skillshare volunteers working in my “team” have really been flexible with my learning curve, and have actually attended their mid-term meeting last week. Four out of the five of them are only here for 3 months, so all of their training will have to be repeated come January! Managing others is a skill that I have certainly had the opportunity to develop, and I would like to think that they have learned new skills from this experience as well.

October’s Teen Club lesson plan included the life skill topic of “basic finances”. We discussed the concepts of wants vs needs, and how saving your money, instead of the immediate gratification of a sweet or a cold drink, can accumulate quite quickly. This is a concept that is not well adopted in this culture, and can really help these youth plant the seed that it is better to look and plan for the future. The younger youth (10-14) had the opportunity to perform dramas/skits about how to keep money safe (ie putting in a bank, not showing it off, keeping bags zipped on transport, hiding it someplace secret, etc). FNB (First National Bank), a large bank in Swaziland, sent representatives to discuss banking basics with our 15-19 year old teens. It was a wonderful collaboration, and really gave the youth a chance to learn something that they would probably never have had exposure to otherwise.

Sadly, I would love to post all of the amazing pictures that we take at our Teen Club sessions, but I cannot. Many of our teens have not disclosed their status to family or friends in their own community. Stigma is so bad in this country, that they feel they have to keep their status a secret for their own protection and wellbeing. Thus, it would be wrong of me to post their pictures on a public site for the entire world to see. We do have all of our youths’ guardians sign consent forms, and one of the questions on this sheet is consenting to photography to be used by Baylor. Some of our youth are at a place where they feel comfortable with this, and some of those photos can be viewed on the Teen Club webpage: swazilandteenclub.wordpress.com. Even if I am not in the photos, I am running around at each of those sessions organizing the volunteers, discussing the lesson plan with the Teen Leaders (who have been trained and empowered to lead some of the lesson material), juggling the food and transport money, keeping time, and a laundry list of other expected and unexpected tasks (during the last month some of these “surprises” have included: a child’s sprained wrist with first aid, power outage, stolen yogurt, neighbor’s complaint of a night guard jumping a fence to take avocados, and sudden lack of adult volunteers, among others). I really recommend you visit this site to see the Teen Club aspect of my work!

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With the Christmas season coming up and many of us looking for a charitable organization to bestow a holiday gift to, I would like to put Teen Club and our other psychosocial support programs on your radar. There is a donation page on the Teen Club website, which can be accessed all year round. There will also be a unique opportunity for 3-6 of our older Teen Club youth to attend the International AIDS Conference in Washington DC next July! I and two other volunteers are working through all the logistical planning right now, and will be getting back to you regarding how to best support this amazing, once in a lifetime experience for these teens. For family and friends – please know that all Christmas gifts to me will be going to this program. Thank you in advance for your generosity!

The final weekend in October happened to hold a treasured 5th Saturday, which meant no Teen Club. Being Halloween weekend, this worked really well. My Mbabane “family”, which includes the PCVs that live in my apartment and the one just downstairs, went on a ~10k hike up a mountain called Sheba’s Breast. It was a beautiful overcast day, and the trail was perfectly challenging. We treated ourselves to a delicious meal in the Ezulwini valley and went straight home to take a much needed nap. Transforming our apartment into an obvious place of Halloween frivolity did not take much time with our printed out witches, bats, haunted houses, and signs. Transforming ourselves into amazing Star Wars characters took a bit more effort. With the help of Laura, Nancy, and a couple bottles of hairspray, I became Princess Leia. Laura was my honey bunny, Han Solo, and Brandon was my bro, Luke Skywalker. Quite fitting relationships if you ask me. Our guest list included Dexter and his victim, Frankenstein’s Monster, two zebras, Waldo, two khumbi conductors, Pinky from Pac Man, mysterious masked fairy, and MTN airtime sellers, among others. It was a really fun shindig. On the actual Halloween night, Cameron (my boyfriend and additional October time consumer :-P) and I watched “Hocus Pocus”! My favorite Halloween movie, and probably the scariest one I could handle. :-)

** Although living in the capital and it being a beautifully sunny day, our power went out. I am just finishing this blog at 8:42pm. Oh Africa.




Birthday picture, as promised. An amazing spread plus amazing friends!


All of the extending Group 7 volunteers were asked into the PC office for a meeting. This is how we chose to spend the time directly after.


Taking a break at about 2/3 the way up Sheba's Breast.


Han, Leia, and Dexter, plus their doppelgangers. :-P


Yay Star War Roomies!

Monday, September 26, 2011

Wine Tasting Birthday & Exhausting Week

Monday September 26th, 2011
11:26am

Firstly, I must thank everyone that made my birthday (over a week ago) super super special!! The cards, emails, facebook messages, gifts, and surprise shindig made me feel amazingly loved. I can’t express the gratitude to all of you for making my 25 years on this beautiful planet so fantastic. Cheers to a quarter of a century of knowing me or 5 days; either way, you make my life better! Thank you.

Now for the details: For all intents and purposes, my birthday celebrations started Friday night. There was supposed to be a highly revered DJ Cleo show at a unique performance venue, House on Fire. At the last minute, he cancelled and was replaced by two local DJs. We went anyway and joined the very large representation of Peace Corps Volunteers. Dancing to the very techno sounds of “house music” is sometimes challenging for us westerners, but we had a blast nonetheless. Some friends and I were even photographed and made appearances in both Monday’s and Tuesday’s newspapers. Under a picture of some of my PC friends dancing they wrote, “Fun lovers doing a popular Duran dance style”! I can tell you none of them had spent more than 48 hours in Durban in their life. Good reporting Swaziland Times.

Saturday’s Teen Club went well in Mbabane. Our “Stress” lesson plan has been well accepted by the youth. They especially like the session were they discuss physical stress relievers and get up and dance. These kids school me in sweet dance moves. :-P The other two sections of the lesson plan cover relaxation coping methods (ie breathing, tension/relaxation exercises, and guided imagery) and a game which looks at what helps and what does not help with stress (ie talking to a friend vs ignoring stressor or taking drugs).

I went to church on Sunday morning. I figured if there was anything I needed to do on my actual birthday, it was to go thank God for my life. Although I was told there was an 8am mass in English, I arrived to find out that it was a special day for the church and all services were going to be combined at 9am. It was a very long mass with the multiple translations and special music, but it was still a great way to start my birthday. I got home in the early afternoon and planned on having a relaxing day with the roomies. Unbeknownst to me, other plans were brewing. Under the pretext of work and gift giving my friends lured me downstairs into Kramessa’s place (apartment in our complex that houses PCV friends Kris, Cameron, and Vanessa :-P). When we returned to my apartment, I was greeted with a boisterous, “SURPRISE” from many of my closest Swaziland friends, decorations, and a table spread with wines, cheeses, and veggies of every type! They had planned a wine tasting party where we tasted an assortment of different types and vintages as Laura read about them out of a Wine Lover’s Guidebook! It was so much fun! They even made me a yummy pasta dinner and a cake in the shape of a popcorn kernel!! Hahaha. Do they know me or what?! :-) It was a perfect birthday.

Everyday since then has been an absolute whirlwind!! My 7:30a-4:30p days at Baylor turned into 7-dusk (~5:40pm) with working lunch breaks! This is Kim’s (my predecessor) last week, so I was trying to extract every bit of information from her that was humanly possible and didn’t verge on torture. On Tuesday the 5 volunteers from the UK that make up my Teen Club team arrived. Orientating them, getting my work done, giving a presentation with my Country Director and Brandon at an international High School for Peace Day (Wednesday), and attempting to learn more from Kim kept me hopping. Multiple nights I came home so mentally exhausted that I couldn’t decide between food, sleep, and a hot shower/bath.

Thus, this has my first opportunity to write a blog entry on my blissfully wonderful day off. I apologize for not responding to emails or facebook messages, and will certainly be more prompt with responses after my team is adequately trained and flying solo. Thank you again for all of your support, love, and happy birthday wishes!

Sorry - Photos to come

Friday, September 9, 2011

Apartment Pictures (post- unpacking hurricane)


This is my bedroom! To the left of the frame is built in closet cabinets.


This is actually a "before" picture of the kitchen, but not a lot has changed. We did get a fridge/freezer and a toaster!


This is the den or study. :-) The other side of the room has two stuffed bookshelves.


This picture was taken in the middle of the living room space. Directly left, out of the frame, is our entrance door. To the right, the hallway to my bedroom, the den, and bathroom. The glass doors behind the kitchen table go out to our small balcony. In the corner is the small stairwell up to Laura and Brandon's room and bathroom. To the left of the kitchen table is the kitchen.


This picture was taken standing infront of the kitchen table facing the living room! My favorite spot to sit is next to the lamp on the couch to the left. :-P

Thursday, September 8, 2011

There Goes the Neighborhood

Wednesday September 7th, 2011
7:40pm

I am sitting on my couch, after taking a real shower, and conversing with my English speaking roommates about the 9-5 jobs we all recently started. Hard to believe this is still Swaziland.

Although, it didn’t take me long to realize that it wasn’t America anymore. Two weeks ago tomorrow I opened the door to my apartment, after a brutal 36 hour / 3 continent trip, to find stacks of tiles, cement, a pile of ripped up carpet, a broken window, and two men welcoming me back. After months and months of discussions with the government run organization in charge of renting out these apartments and multiple promises that all of the renovations and necessary fixes would be completed by my move-in date, I found out all the work started one day before I arrived. I was exhausted. I was homeless. I REALLY missed America. Things like this just don’t happen in the fantastical land I had played in for a month. Damn Swaziland. Humph.

Luckily, I have awesome friends who put me up for the night with a bottle of wine (three sips of which and I was unconscious), a bed, and a snuggie(yup, care package items to Africa are crazy). Supposedly the gentlemen working in my apartment were going to be finished the following day… which then became the day after that at 1pm…. which turned into just after 3pm on Saturday. By 6:30pm I, 2 saints masquerading as my friends, and an awesome Peace Corps driver had carried all of our bags and furniture (4 PACKED trips in a good sized truck) up 3 flights of stairs into my new home.

Laura and Brandon** missed out on all of that fun, but certainly had plenty waiting for them when they landed in Swaziland the following day, Sunday. The subsequent few days’ activities included intense unpacking, cleaning, furniture arranging, household item shopping, and general nesting. Our efforts really paid off, because now this apartment is by far my favorite place in Swaziland… just don’t tell my hut. :-P

For me, work started on the 2nd of September. I guess I have not done an adequate job of describing my new position, because of many inquires while I was home. Summarized: I organize and put on support groups for HIV+ teens (10-19) at 4 different sites around the country. These support groups are called “Teen Clubs” and include games and activities, an educational topic and lesson, and food before the youth return to their homesteads. Baylor, the medical university in Texas, has clinics in multiple African countries to aid in the treatment of maternal and pediatric HIV and associated illnesses. Teen Clubs and a handful of other smaller programs I’m working on are a part of Baylor’s psychosocial support initiative. My official title is Teen Club Coordinator, and I will manage all other volunteers that come to Baylor to assist with our youth programs. In Swaziland, this program is just about a year old with lots of opportunity to develop and expand. After the first few days on the job, I’m as excited as ever to be a part of that growth.

I hope everyone enjoyed Labor Day! Monday I was working, but here everyone got September 6th off for Somhlolo Day (Independence Day). There weren’t any fireworks or huge national events, but everyone enjoys taking a day off of work. I celebrated Swaziland’s end to British colonization by going for a hike with a few other friends up Sibebe Rock, which is a famous mountain very near the capital city. Unlike my previous Swazi abode location, I am up in the mountains where temperatures stay cooler and not every plan has two inch thorns. The views were beautiful, and the rock climbing was quite adventurous. Happy Independence!!

So, all in all, I have to say I’ve had a pretty productive first couple weeks back on the African continent. Even with the rocky start (and end ;-) CORNY!!), I’m glad to be back and continuing my service in Swaziland. I think it is where I’m supposed to be, for now.

**Honestly, the BESTEST roommates EVER!

Move-In Day Pictures


Bedroom


Living/Dining Room (and Laura and Brandon's Bed)


Den


A beer with the awesome roommates in our new apartment on our first night.

Michigan Vacation

August 29th

When I arrived in Traverse City’s airport at 3:15pm on July 21st, I carried with me a list of activities, foods, and needs that I was sure the paradise of America, which had been epically constructed over the past two years in my head, would fulfill. Thanks to my fantastic family and wonderful friends my expectations were absolutely blown out of the water!! Being a fudgy (tourist) in your hometown is such an experience. To capture the last month at home I tried to brainstorm the list of activities I partook in while I was home. The resulting list was the product of that venture, and shocking as it may be it is not completely comprehensive. Note: sleep was not present. :-P


ATE & Drank… a lot
Saw Elvis perform (yup, he’s alive and plays at nursing homes!)
Williamsburg Theatre – Music Medley
Crocker Family BBQ
Baseball Games
Swimming (day and night - - - lake, bay, river, and mote)
Sailing
Jet Skiing
Kayaking
Canoeing
Parasailing
Winery tour and tasting
Wine & Art Festival
TC Film Festival
SVSU Theatre Production of ‘Suds’
Nerf Gun Fight
Pillow Fight
Dancing
Josh Groban Concert
Grand Rapids Zoo
High Ropes Corse
Card Game that had to do with selling German Beans
Cooked and consumed delicious Greek Food
Made new friends (including sister’s awesome boyfriend!)
S’mores and Wine party
Shopping
Got pampered
TC Friday Night Live
Tobias Family Get-Together
Bag Pipe and Drum Line Concert
Craft and Art Market
Played Tennis and Ping Pong
Roller Bladed & Biked TART Trail
Ran 5k for NICU
Built Sandcastle
Cedar Point
HAD A BLAST!!!!!!!!!!


I loved seeing those of you that I could, and I can’t wait to get back to see everyone that I couldn’t this time as well. Thank you so much for making my visit home such a grand one. Honestly, getting on the plane to come back to Swaziland was very difficult, and I blame all of you. :-)

See you tomorrow…



A wonderful night of dinner theatre with these lovely women!!


Josh Groban Concert in Grand Rapids!


Nikki raising the new ride, Windseeker, at Cedar Point


After a 5k run, the only logical thing to do is go jump in the bay and make a sandcastle.


Had to get out and walk our canoes at one point on the Platte River

Monday, June 27, 2011

First Library Opening Ceremony

June 15, 2011
6:35pm

Since the books arrived into the communities, many teachers and students have been working very hard to get them ready to be shelved. All three schools in my community have been doing the same. Every week I dedicate one day to each school where they can use and abuse me. At the end of each session we collaborate and discuss what needs to be done by the following week’s visit. The three schools have been setting a different pace, but I am so very happy to report that the work IS getting done!

Makhava Primary has taken the lead in efficiency and dedication. Every week I would return to find our week’s goals and much more completed! On Tuesday I was planning on going to the school to assist in classroom tours of the new library. Before then, each teacher was responsible for teaching their students the basic parts of a book, the difference between fiction and non-fiction, and how to best handle and take care of books. These topics were all reviewed in a small teacher training the previous week.

When I arrived to the school I found the teachers a little more dressed up than usual. I was told that the teacher/librarian, who had worked so hard to get the library to this point, was putting the finishing touches onto the Program. What Program?! During the previous week they had done all the teachings and tours and decided to have an official Library Opening Ceremony! I was number 8 to speak on the program, and everything was getting started in about 20 minutes!

All of the students were asked to bring their classroom chairs out into the open area used for assemblies. A hodge podge of “nicer” chairs were lined along the buildings veranda for the VIPs, which is where they told me I needed to sit. The people in attendance were the students, teachers, the head and deputy head teachers, a pastor, three community members that sit on the school committee, and me. Every person who spoke, from the pastor to the librarian to a former student now committee member, thanked me for the library. It quickly turned into a praise Zodwa hour, which made me very uncomfortable. Other organizations and volunteers have brought books to schools just to find them a year later still in the boxes! I am very grateful to have a school that is willing to put in the effort and time to create a library, not just hoard books. It was THEIR hard work, and THEIR commitment to the project, and THEIR cooperation that made the library successful. This is exactly what I told them when it was my turn to speak.

Actually, after giving the necessary and culturally expected greetings to those assembled, I opened with a section of a speech I gave at my own 8th grade graduation ceremony. About how my grandfather would say that, “Education is the building blocks of your future”, thus every book they read and every test they study for will create stronger and stronger cement blocks for their future. Then I told them that it was their work that created the library, and they all were a blessing in my life (the pastor had previously given a sermon on blessings). I had received a 2011 planner from Macmillan during sorting, and I had given it to the librarian earlier that morning for all of her hard work. She gave it back to me and asked me to give it to her during the event in front of everyone! Then she acted shocked when I called her up and gave it to her!! Ha ha. As always, a prayer and a song closed the assembly just as it had opened it.

The librarian then gave the guests a tour of the new library and the head teacher asked if they could break one of the library’s rules and eat at the tables inside. After looking to me for advice, the librarian consented. A feast of chicken, rice, beet root, coleslaw, and Fanta were then served to us by the teachers. I was not allowed to take my plate in the kitchen where I happened to be standing, but instead had to go to the library and have it delivered to me. After a delicious meal the guests left but the party had only just begun. The teachers did not wish to teach their final classes for the day so they had a dance party! It was fun to celebrate with them, instead of being an honored guest.

I look forward to the completion of the other two schools’ libraries as well. Although, I hope their celebrations are after I’m up in Mbabane. :-)

**One teacher asked for my camera at the beginning of the event and appointed himself photographer.


A before shot of the library. Taken December 2010.



Working with the awesome teachers at Makhava to get the books processed. Look in the back of the photo at the student "working" on the library. The students were soooo excited for the library to open!



Finished Library!



Official Library Opening Event



Partying with the teachers after the event!

Last Days as a “Professional Artist”

June 15, 2011
5:01pm

Laura, Brandon, and I realized that we still had quite a bit of paint left from all of our amazing bus stop murals. Thus, we decided to paint some more stuff!! In the last couple of weeks we have finished a couple more bus stops, one preschool, and one NCP (Neighborhood Care Point- aka preschool with kitchen). We certainly have grown quite a bit in our artistic abilities in two years. I would never have guessed coming in that painting bus stops and schools was going to be a highlight of my Peace Corps experience. I think these final before and after pictures express better how just a little bit of paint can transform a learning environment.



PRESCHOOL IN LAURA & BRANDON'S COMMUNITY





NCP IN MY COMMUNITY


Friday, June 17, 2011

TRIP HOME!!!

Wednesday June 15, 2011
1:46pm

As you may know, Peace Corps is giving me a roundtrip ticket to the USA for a month leave before I start my third year extension in Mbabane with Baylor!! Surprisingly enough, that time is quickly approaching! I have actually been in Africa two whole years?? Wow. Anyway, I have not gotten my exact flight itinerary but I’m pretty sure I will be getting on a plane in Swaziland on the 20th of July and landing back in Swaziland on the 23rd of August. Thus, I will most likely be on American soil from July 21st to August 21st. I CAN’T WAIT!!!

And neither can my mother. :-P She has already been on top of scheduling many amazing activities and family gatherings during that period… now it is your turn! Being as excited as I am to drive again, I have already planned to road trip to certain cities in Michigan. If I’m in your area, PLEASE let’s make plans! If I have not yet scheduled a weekend in your area, I might just want to drive there too or Traverse City visits are ALWAYS possible and encouraged! I have missed you all so damn much!!!

Draft Travel Schedule:

Saginaw & Tri-Cities Area: Last weekend in July
Grand Rapids: 1st weekend in August
Chesaning/Flint/Saginaw: 2nd weekend in August
*Unless noted above, I will be in Traverse City. My “weekends” are very fluid and can start as soon or end as late as need be to accommodate your less flexible schedule.


Already Booked Days**:

Saturday – Monday July 23rd –July 25th
Saturday & Sunday August 6th-7th
Friday & Saturday August 12th-13th
Sunday –Wednesday August 14th-17th
**Evenings may or may not still be available. Check with me. :-)

Now if you are thinking to yourself, “I really want to hang out with Darryn, but what should we do?” fear naught. :-) Here is a partial list of the many fun things that I would LOVE to do while I’m back in the states!

Play Tennis
Roller Blade
Bike Ride
Swim / Beach Day
Bonfire & S’more Night
Tour Wineries
Enjoy a good micro-brewed beer in public
Movie and Popcorn at a Cinema
THEATRE!! (I know this is a slower time of the season for shows, but if anyone knows of something on during this time PLEASE tell me!! I’m going through major withdrawals!)
BBQs (known in Swaziland as a Braii)
Girly Pampering
Massages
Clothes Shopping (I’m not a big fan of this, but it needs to happen. HELP!)
Sitting on a comfy couch in a coffee shop sipping liquid yumminess
Stay out past dark (in general)
Joy Rides/Road Trips (I’ll drive!!)
Hot Dog at a Base Ball Game (GO Beach Bums!)
But mostly: VISIT AND CATCH UP WITH YOU!!!! I don’t care when or where, but this has to happen!

Spot the Differences

June 15, 2011
5:05pm

Let’s play a game. Pretend you are in a doctor’s or a dentist’s office and you pick up the Highlights Magazine that has been sitting there for about 8 years. You open to the best page in the entire publication, “Spot the Differences”, and you find these photos. How many do you see?




Painted May 18th – Fixed May 19th




Painted June 13th – Not fixed = Learned Our Lesson!


Having trouble finding the two biggest differences?
Hint 1 : Jesus was WHAT?
Hint 2 : Who’s hiding behind the backpack?

Yes, PCVs can make mistakes. Three of us painted that first stop and MANY people walked by and read it. NONE of us caught it until a phone call that night from a friend in the Lavumisa Police Department. Bright and early the next day we were out there fixing it. The second bus stop with the same message was our final mural on the MR11. Let’s just say we were pretty paranoid about what we were chalking before the paint went on. :-P



PS I found 6. (Font, colors, # of panels, bags’ location, and 2 PCV bloopers) :-P

Friday, May 20, 2011

How Swaziland Has Ruined My Social Life

As I get more and more excited about coming home for a month before starting my 3rd year extension, I've been thinking about all the changes that have occurred in my social behaviors during the last two years. This is the beginning of, no doubt, a much longer list of ways in which I will have become socially awkward / uncouth / weird in America. Tentative dates for this trip home are July 20th - August 23rd!!! If you still want to see me (please first read the list below :-P) when I'm home, my planner and I are making play dates!! Can't wait!

1. Saying “now now” or “soon soon”.
2. Not recognizing a pick up line that isn’t “Will you marry me?”.
3. Fearing to be out after dark because of snakes, criminals and/or disappointing Babe Vilakati (PC Safety and Security Officer).
4. Preparing food for friends using dishes that have had a plethora of other foods in it to save water.
5. Keeping my cell phone in my bra.
6. Talking really fast on the phone to save people airtime.
7. Wrtin lik this in txt2keep msg w/in lil space.cause costs=70cent/msg:-/
8. Using an umbrella in the summer to protect my white butt from the intense African sun.
9. Wearing only a lihiya (long piece of clothe) when it is really really hot.
10. Being utterly surprised when people show up to things on time.
11. Staring blankly when someone makes a reference to any widely known media, technology, or cultural event that has occurred in the last 2 years.
12. Giving things with my right hand while grabbing my right elbow with my left hand.
13. Saying “ncesi” (sorry) when people fall, drop things, or hurt themselves.
14. “Attempting” to have matching outfits.
15. Showing off my bright, neon white thighs that haven’t seen sun for 2 years.
16. Wearing longer skirts/shorts, not because I’m ashamed of my white thighs, but because it now feels completely indecent to have my knees visible.
17. Saying a very punctuated “How. Are. You?” to anyone under the age of 12.
18. Freaking out when getting to taste my first real American pizza, margarita, and bagel.
19. Using words like boot (trunk), buckee (truck), or Is it? (Really?)
20. Forgetting that people only want to hear about Swaziland for about 5 minutes.
21. 7:30 bed time
22. Having every conversation turn into a condom or male circumcision talk.


These are goofy pictures during the book project. The "evolution" staircase was created while we were waiting for the final school to pick up their order. We had obviously all lost our minds. :-P

Mountains of Books and Waterfalls

May 15th, 2011
12:44pm

It is very good to be home. I left site on April 25th with the intention of coming back once our Close of Service Conference finished on the 30th. As plans usually change in Africa, I didn’t return until May 10th! I am happy to report, though, that the books have arrived, all 30,000 of them are sorted, and they have been delivered to their expectant and excited schools.

Peace Corps treated us very well for our finally conference. We stayed at an establishment named Forrester’s Arms located about 25km away from the capitol city. I was gorgeous, had the BEST food I have ever had, and was situated in a very rare oak grove. With the trees changing colors due to the winter season approaching I got my first taste of Fall in two years!! All of the volunteers felt very spoiled and didn’t want to leave after our sessions ended. Many of these informative meetings did not pertain to me or my fellow extending volunteers, but we stashed the handouts and information to be used next year.

Right in the middle of our workshop Brooke and I were given the news that the books had finally arrived in Swaziland and would need to be unloaded Friday morning at the very latest! Our conference was wrapping up that morning, but everyone was heading to the office afterward to attend our Country Director’s ring out ceremony and farewell party. While others were enjoying tea and scones during breaks Brooke and I were on our phones trying to get an unloading crew together. Amazing as our friends are, we had 8 people go with us to meet the gigantic train cart filled with 20 pallets or 632 boxes of books. It is still shocking that we got all of the boxes off the very high truck and into the very small warehouse area in less than 2 hours. Our muscles were sore, we were bruised and cardboard scratched, but they had finally landed. We could get them sorted and out in a week… not. Gavin, the manager of the warehouse, informed us that it was the Swazi Labour Day Weekend and thus we were not allowed to start sorting until Tuesday. Any other weekend of the year we could work, but since this was a “workers holiday” we weren’t allowed. It was going to be more expensive for me and Brooke to go home and back then staying the few days in another volunteer’s place, so we were stuck. We got some preliminary strategies outlined for how we were going to tackle the monster and caught up on the media stored in our computers. :-)

Tuesday arrived and so did our volunteer sorting crew. Tuesday and Wednesday were very very long days. We came across boxes and boxes of “War Planes” and “Life in a Desert”. Getting these books dispersed amongst the schools and playing the largest, hardest game of Tetris ever imagined were quite challenging. Our space was so limited that we couldn’t create 30 groupings of boxes until some of the stock was diminished. We couldn’t diminish the stock until we had groupings for the schools. Calling it Tetris is actually an understatement. Somehow we busted through it and having unloaded on a separate day and working hard we got done sorting a day early! Friday was a wonderful break for all of us to go into the office, participate in a Group 6 friend’s ring out ceremony, get town tasks done, and avoid all mention of the written word.

Saturday the first group of schools came to pick up their books. Many schools had decided to re-schedule their pick-up time when it landed on a Saturday, so we were done early afternoon on Saturday. We took advantage of that free time to visit the single movie theatre in Swaziland. None of us were familiar with the movies being shown, but we decided to see “Thor”. I got popcorn. :-P

There were no school pick-ups scheduled for Sunday, because generally this is considered the day to attend church. Our sorting crew took this time to get our own things done. I ran, did laundry, and talked to my Mom on Mother’s Day. Toward the evening we decided to climb part of the small mountain on the outskirts of the community we were staying in and build a fire next to the most gorgeous and serene waterfall in Swaziland. We came prepared with hotdogs and s’more-esk ingredients (there are not any real graham crackers, Hershey’s chocolate, or non-flavored marshmallows). The waterfall crashes into a calm pool of water before skirting around the boulders damming it and continuing its travels down the mountain. It is widely believed that there is a seven headed snake that lives in this watering hole (to learn more read “Swimming with the Seven Headed Snake” blog entry). Other than the remains of thoroughly used candles for what we imagine are religious practices, there was no sign of human or snake life. We, thus, decided to go for a midnight (actually around 9pm), candlelit swim. It was freezing, but after 2 minutes of hating the individual that suggested the dive I absolutely loved it!

Monday and Tuesday were blissfully uneventful. The schools came mostly “on time”, and the books were dispersed throughout the nation. Tuesday afternoon I raced to catch my last bus home. Now the hard work begins. :-) Tomorrow I start making my rounds to the Ekuphumleni schools and make for sure that the books are being processed, shelved, and inevitably used by children!

I am so very grateful to all of you who helped fund this amazing project! I also have to give a shout out to all of the volunteers who helped with the sorting, the workshop, and those who got their schools involved with the project. Lastly and most importantly, my partner in this magnanimous endeavor made this not only possible but an enjoyable experience for everyone involved. Thank you all so much!!




Swimming with the Seven Headed Snake

May 15th, 2011
2:15pm

As previously mentioned in the blog entry “Mountains of Books and Waterfalls”, there is a seven headed snake living in the base of the waterfall that I swam in. Other than the complete “ick” and “awesome!” factors that somehow coincide, this discovery peaked my interest in this Swazi cultural monster. Thus, I asked around for more information and got a slew of interesting answers.

According to my sources (PCV friend living in snake inhabited community, host brother Sandile, and community friend Fikile) this snake is definitely demonic. (Is anything with seven heads ever good? :-P) It can lure people to it by transforming itself. The two examples given to me were a duck and a pretty woman. Once you approach the disguised snake it will transform back to its original scaly body and pull you under the water. Few make surface alive, but those who do have special, though demonic, powers.

Two of my three sources discussed the relationship with the snake moving and the weather. If the snake is out the sky will be cloudy and black. Once a dam or water source is low, the snake must move to another one. There is a general belief that there is multiple powerful and evil snakes residing in Swaziland, but the seven headed one is reserved for the Zombodze community (waterfall location).

Two denominations of Swazi Christians are whispered to be worshippers of the snake: the Jericos and the ZCC (I don’t exactly know what this stands for). The candle remains that we found at the pool of water are said to be left by the Jerico church. They collect the regurgitated water and snake saliva mixture, somehow found at the waterfall base, because it has healing properties. There are many healing rituals that are spoke of at this place which include an induced vomiting practice and a umuti (traditional/herbal medicine) inhalation ceremony using boiled water from the waterfall. I’m very interested to talk to someone from the Jerico church (usually identifiable by colorful, twisted ropes tied around their head and robed waist on Sundays) to verify any of these customs.

When asked why the snake did not attack us the answer was “because you are white”. Swazis are rumored to die by the fang of the snake, but white people do not. My bhuti (brother) told me that the white men gave the snake an offering of a very large bag of silver coins and it was pleased with the monetary sacrifice. He also said that I was there with more than three people, which decreased my risk of being taken into the depths of the ~13 foot pool by the murderous fiend.

The last story I can share with you regarding the infamous seven headed snake was also told to me by my bhuti. He spent some time with extended family members who reside in Zombodze a few years ago. While there, he helped them put large pipes from the mountain river to their homestead. He received a call from them about a month later. The pipes had been “twisted” and no longer transported the clean water to the community. This was put forth as proof to the existence of the seven headed demon snake. True story.

Monday, April 25, 2011

Address Change

When I start working with the amazing staff and even more AMAZING kiddos at Baylor I will be living in Mbabane. The apartment hunt has started and the fact that all of them have running water makes me VERY excited!! Although I don't know exactly where I will be living yet I will be getting mail through the Peace Corps' office PO Box. This was the first address I gave you when first coming here, but I've also put it below.

Darryn Crocker
US Peace Corps
PO Box 2797
Mbabane H100
Swaziland
AFRICA


No worries if you already sent something to my Hluti address. We have paid through next April for that box. Just anything that you send out from here on would be better addressed to Mbabane. Thanks for the last two years of correspondence! It is always wonderful to hear from family and friends via mail/email/phone calls/facebook/WHATEVER!

Saturday, April 9, 2011

Where in the World Are the Books?

April 7, 2011
3:55pm

As you can imagine, since returning from my glorious vacation with my mom, books and planning for their arrival has taken up most of my time! This past weekend my partner in crime and I met in town to finalize the accommodation for the 6-8 volunteers who will be assisting with the sorting, secure transportation to and from the warehouse for the 7 planned days of sorting and pick-up, and to meet with the owner of the warehouse to get an update on the books’ whereabouts and plan some contingency strategies should the protests hold up our operations. OH! I also learned about and got first-hand experience on how to kill and prepare a chicken. It was a very productive weekend. :-P

We were told that the 1,000 books should have arrived in Durban’s port yesterday. This means that, with all luck, they should be jumping a train and hitting Swazi soil by the middle of next week. Brooke or I will get a call less than 24 hours before the books arrive at the front door of the warehouse to be unloaded. In that short time we are going to call all of those individuals who were put on the sorting crew, and tell them to get their butts up to Matsapha! Again, this could all be delayed for a number of reasons, including the protest scheduled for next Tuesday, but we are ready for their arrival (knock on wood). The schools have also been finishing up some last minute additions to their libraries and writing down the directions for the book pick-up.

Actually, I have not written anything about the massive Librarian workshop that took place the weekend before Mom arrived in country! It went rather well. Thirty librarians showed up for the workshop at the Manzini Library. We had organized accommodation and food for 2 nights at the convent/hostel four blocks down the road from the library. Thankfully, a good friend and fellow volunteer came to help me out at the last minute, because my partner had to go to Pretoria for medical reasons. I gave her the official title of “Cat Herder” since that is how it feels to try and get people to things on time in this country. She did a wonderful job and the participants were at the library on time and ready. I wish I could have said the same about the presenters. :-(

Our project is partnering with the Swaziland National Library Service who performed similar teacher librarian trainings. Thus, they were going to teach the material in siSwati using the agenda we had co-created at a meeting just the week before! I was quite disappointed but I guess not entirely surprised to find them not prepared and completely disorganized at the training. It made my heart sink and my blood boil. I had actually considered hijacking the workshop, but my much calmer and less Type A friend talked me off the culturally inappropriate edge. With some prompting and clarification questions, the presenters did end up relaying a majority of the information they were suppose to teach. What wasn’t covered or covered poorly, I attempted to clarify the following morning during my session on student involvement, positive reinforcement and praise, and creating a space conducive to learning (topics that aren’t really considered in this culture). Part of it turned into a review session, but the evaluations came back very positive. I can confidently say that our objectives were met at the workshop, just maybe not as smoothly or as professionally as I would have liked. The teachers then returned to their schools fully equipped to prepare for the books’ arrival.

Future Plans

March 30th, 2011
2:50pm

Just yesterday I was accepted to extend my Peace Corps service in Swaziland for an additional year! I’ve been given the opportunity to volunteer with the Baylor Pediatric Center in Mbabane as the Teen Club Coordinator. This organization may sound familiar to you because I have been volunteering at their youth camps and monthly youth support groups for the majority of my Peace Corps service. Now I will be in charge of organizing them.

For everyone who has been dying to give me hugs and welcome me back onto American soil do NOT despair! I’m planning on cashing in on them soon! I will still be coming home in August or September for a full month. Then I will be returning, not to my lovely hut in the hot lowveld, but an apartment, with running water, in the much cooler capitol city. This extension will look much different than my first 2 years, but I’m sooooo looking forward to the change and challenge.

Few More Vacation Pictures


Giraffes have to do the splits to drink! So funny to watch!


On top of Table Mountain


This fact still floors me! Although, I sometimes feel that way about my family. :-P


Mmmmmmm wine and chocolate


Spot of tea

Mom’s Vacation: Part II

April 5, 2011
1:00pm

To continue with the second half of this tour, we’ll have to jump on an international flight to Livingstone, Zambia, which took off at 10:20am Sunday March 13th. Transport to our backpackers in Livingstone was waiting at the airport when we disembarked the aircraft and it was in that navy blue van that we met two nice young gentlemen traveling individually. My Mother was quite disturbed by this idea that people could travel solo. Not long after checking into the “Rhino” room, the name of our private room at this really cool backpackers, and getting settled in with a beer and the book of possible activities to do at and around Victoria Falls she had temporarily adopted one of the gents who was from Sweden. After insisting on paying for his lunch and joining us for a river cruise that evening, I informed him that he had just been “mommed”. :-P

The Zembezi River cruise on the Lady Livingstone boat at sunset was absolutely beautiful! The three of us sipped on our free cocktails and nibbled the appetizers, listened to the identification of birds and animals hanging out on the river banks, and witnessed a gorgeous sunset over the Zimbabwean horizon. I also learned quite a bit more about Zambia, Zimbabwe, and strangely enough Sweden! Haha.

Our viewing of the magnificent Victoria Falls the following morning was quite a …. wet experience. During this time of the year, right after the rainy season, the water levels going over the falls are at an all time high! This means that the mist crashing up from the lower level of the falls is also at its optimum intensity. In the native language to the area, Victoria Falls are actually called Mosi-oa-Tunya or “the mist that thunders”. This is not an exaggeration. Mom and I thought we would be fine hiking the paths in front of the falls armed with our travel umbrellas. Ha! I remember turning around, after crossing over a bridge about 2/3 the way up the falls, and I saw Mom clutching her umbrella which was bent backwards. We were thoroughly drenched and laughing hysterically!! The mist blocked much of the view of the falls, but we hiked all the paths possible. We even hiked down into the gorge to a spot on the lower river called “the boiling point”. An Australian guy we passed down there characterized it perfectly by saying, “I feel like I’m in an Indian Jones movie”. It was breathtaking, literally and figuratively.

It started raining as we left the park. Perfect timing! We went to a faux Italian restaurant for lunch, grabbed some popcorn necessities to make dinner that night and went back to relax at the backpackers. We spent the rainy afternoon reading books on the most colorful and large pillows which made up the “chill zone” in the center of this establishment. Our Swedish friend joined us for a bit, but then fell asleep on the much too comfortable pillows.

`Relaxing and rejuvenating the previous day made the very early morning rise not as bad. Instead of crossing the bridge to view the very misty falls from the Zimbabwe side, we decided to expend our double entry visa on a safari trip to Chobe National Park in Botswana. I certainly think we made the correct decision. We were shuttled to the border and crossed the river in a small boat. Geographically this point in the water was situated between four different countries. If we had floated just a bit down river we could land on either Zimbabwe’s or Zambia’s coast. Heading straight across landed us in Botswana, and to our right was Caprivi Strip of Namibia. It reminded me a lot of Four Corners in the States only on an international scale. :-)

On the Botswana shore we were given a lift in the safari vehicle to border control and customs. After passing through all of that, we were back in the safari vehicle and transported to the small café adjacent to the tour’s office. The group from Jollyboy Backpackers consisted of two Dental Hygienist Professors from Sweden and three university students from Germany. We jumped on a flat motorized boat docked on the Chobe River behind the office and took off toward the national park. There were a TON of hippos segregated into their own groups along the shore. We saw multiple crocodiles, impala, cape buffalo, water monitors, warthogs, I think they are called mongoose, and many bird species. A herd of elephants even ran down to the waterfront for some H₂O cocktails and a romp in the mud. We pulled up on the shore not too far from them to enjoy the show. As we were making it back to our starting point it started to rain and the engine of our boat started acting up. Watching a large storm move across the Namibian side of the river was actually unbelievably beautiful. We made it back to the café in time for a yummy lunch, while Mother Nature got the rain out of her system. By the time we boarded our safari vehicle for the afternoon game drive it was sunny once again.

Chobe National Park certainly wasn’t as well manicured as Kruger. The drive was quite a bit bumpier, but the animals were just as amazing! About halfway through the drive another guide called over the radio that a lion was sited hunting a cape buffalo. Whatever our planned path was at that point, it was never traversed. We did a quick u-turn and sped as fast as possible back toward the front of the park. Five minutes later we joined the ranks of vehicles watching the fully grown male lion sitting quite majestically in the middle of a clearing. The cape buffalo was somewhat close but the lion didn’t seem to be too motivated to take on a fellow big five animal by himself at the time. We watched him for a while, found the tracks of his brother walking into the bush on the other side of the road, and then saw as he yawned, got up, and sauntered into the bush toward the road! We tried to figure out the trajectory of his path to so he could not circumvent our vehicle when crossing the road. Unbeknownst to us, his plan was to seek shade in the bushes and we couldn’t spot him thereafter. These animals are really good at hiding when they want to; even when we know they are right in front of our faces!

On the way back to the border and our boat to Zambia we saw many more elephants hanging by the side of the road. There are no fences keeping the animals in Chobe National Park, and as a billboard said, “Elephants have the right of way”! There was also a lineup of dozens and dozens of semi-trucks alongside the road waiting to be ferried across. Our guide told us that the line was about 3km long and they had been waiting there for two weeks!! The currents were too strong to transport them across at this time and sometimes the line reaches back 5km or more. Being a semi-driver there would be quite a tiring and frustrating job description. Why they haven’t built a bridge there yet, floors me! I would think it would pay for itself within a few short months. But I digress; we got across the river just fine and were transported back to the hostel after re-clearing Zambian customs.

Our final evening in Zambia was uneventful and perfectly laid back. That final morning we attempted to spend the remaining kwacha we had left (Botswana uses pula and both countries prefer USD) and then made our way to the small airport for a flight back to the hub of Jo’Burg.

A quick flight jump at Jo’Burg got us in the air heading to the gorgeous city of Cape Town, our final vacation destination. I LOVE this city! Driving in our little rented car into the city as the sun set behind the famous Table Mountain was at the same time beautiful and frustrating because of a loss of visibility. We found Abbey Manor Guesthouse and were instantly impressed by our amazing accommodation. This B&B was located just at the bottom of the mountain and a few minutes from the heart of the city known as the “city bowl”. We fulfilled one of my major objectives of being in this amazing city within that first night: we found an authentic Mexican restaurant! Soooo good.

Since the weather for Thursday morning was sunny and clear, we took the opportunity to cable-car up to the top of Table Mountain. We hiked all over the top of the plateau enjoying the tablecloth-free views (clouds around the top of the mountain have been nick named the “tablecloth”). After taking the longest paths possible on the main plateau, we decided to hike off towards “Echo Point”. That journey was a bit more strenuous, but lots of fun! We rehydrated (well, one of us rehydrated and the other had a beer :-P) at the café on top of Table Mountain before descending the same way we came up.

With a good dose of exercise in our systems we chose a leisurely, scenic joy ride down to Cape Point. Arriving at the gate of the national park in which Cape Point and the Cape of Good Hope are enclosed, we found the weather had changed slightly. A dense force of clouds had overtaken the once clear sky. A wonderfully honest women working at the gate told us that the visibility at the peninsula’s point at that moment was not worth the park entrance fee. No worries there! We still had beautiful scenery to see along the eastern side on our return trip to the city. We even stopped to walk along Boulder’s Beach and say “hello” to the famous Simon’s Town penguin colony. They wished me to pass along their greetings, although I’m sure I would butcher their accent! :-)

Being this close to the sea, we felt it would be negligent to not stop for sea food. We had the GPS do a restaurant search and it landed us in a small, local Portuguese restaurant. This restaurant had closed their kitchen ten minutes before (at 3pm) and weren’t scheduled to open again until dinner. Luckily, the hostess said that the owner/cook was still here and, after checking, he would be willing to make up another order! Not knowing exactly what we were ordering when asking for the fish and steak “esperda” (spelling?), our jaws hit the table when two skewers, hanging vertically and loaded with meat, were set in front of us. About the same time the heavenly meat arrived the radio reminded us that it was St. Patty’s Day! What do two respectable part-Irish lasses do when informed that it’s an Irish holiday while sitting in a restaurant/bar... we order another round of drinks, of course!! (sadly, no green beer present)

The next order of business, after returning to our lovely room, was to get decked out! That evening we were going to the theatre!!!! We had purchased two tickets to see the opera Carmen at the Artscape Theater. Just sitting in the house, before the show even started, I felt as giddy as a kid in a candy store. I miss theater so damn much! Anyway, Carmen was a three hour long show set in Spain but sang entirely in French. :-P As most things in Africa, it did not start on time, nor did the 2 separate intermissions keep to only 10 minutes! Regardless, I was in heaven… Mom on the other hand might have chosen a different location to describe the situation. Haha. Even with English prompts on a screen above the stage, some of the actions and dialogue were misinterpreted. :-P Although barely scratching the surface of my theatre deficit, it was one of the main highlights of the trip for me.

Friday morning we found ourselves perusing the shops and attractions at the popular V&A Waterfront. After loading up on recommendations and maps at the information center, we left the city in search of the mystical and wondrous Wine Country. Not more than 20 minutes out of town there are a plethora of amazing wine estates to make any wino drool. The first location was Bilton Estates where wine tasting was pair with Belgian chocolates!! Yummm… We sure acted like we knew what we were doing by commenting/reading up on the full-bodiedness, plum, grass, lemon, pepper, etc flavors, and how the tannin lingered on the palate. The chocolate was written in the same manner and tasted delicious! The next winery was called Uva Mira, and was in the most beautiful location nestled halfway up a hill overlooking the ocean, city, and neighboring vineyards. We ordered a cheese tray, which turned out to be enough to feed 5 people (or, as it turns out, 2 cheese-loving Crocker women :-P) and sipped our wine tastings while enjoying the spectacular scenery. The third and final winery we visited was not as noteworthy as the first two so I have promptly forgotten its name. Do not worry, my forgetting has nothing to do with my alcohol intake at the time, although I let Mom fully take over the tasting at this stop. Afrikaans names are always difficult for me to store in my long-term memory.

A goal of mine for the trip was to have Mom try Ethiopian food at a restaurant on the bustling Long Street that I enjoyed immensely with Claire the year before. Although full on our cheese, we attempted to visit said ethnic restaurant. Sadly, or maybe luckily, it was closed being between lunch and dinner at the time we arrived. Instead, we walked up and down the famous street and investigated Green Market Square. To close out the day we returned to the V&A Waterfront to enjoy an ice cream cone and then board a sunset cruise sailboat. Seeing Robben Island, the World Cup Stadium, Table Mountain, Cape Town, a glorious sunset, and even a few seals from a wind powered boat in Table Bay was truly spectacular. Being on the water, with my mother, did not make me want to run back to a dry landlocked country! Oh, Swaziland. :-) We took in some jazz music at The Green Dolphin restaurant before calling it an absolutely perfect night.

The final morning of our vacation was all about pampering. No alarms were set and the glorious breakfasts served at the Manor were thoroughly enjoyed before packing up and leaving. With the help of our hostess, we booked a quick massage and beautifying session at a nearby spa. The masseuse had a hard time getting 2 years of hand washing clothes and schlepping heavy stuff onto public transport out of my shoulders. :-P Following that utterly amazing and relaxing experience we went to the Nelson Hotel to have a spot of tea. Neither my mother nor I are big tea drinkers, but many people suggested we experience morning tea at this 5 star historic hotel. We were certainly glad we did. The selecting and preparation of the tea was literally called a “ceremony” and a two tiered plate of sandwiches and pastries accompanied our beverages. The most adorable and entertaining part of the experience was watching the gentleman near us who had brought his young daughter. She was thoroughly dressed up for the occasion, and they walked arm in arm after the conclusion of their daddy-daughter date. :-)

Sadly, the time had come. After almost two weeks of freedom and fun, I had to give up … my wheels. :-P We returned the car to the airport and hopped on the return flight to Jo’Burg. Upon arriving to the major airport, we found out that Mom’s flight had been delayed by an hour. This was great news, because we had one more hour to sit in an airport restaurant and postpone the inevitable. Once that hour was finally over, I saw Mom to security and we waved goodbye. Her story now differs a quite a bit from mine but was certainly more dramatic and entertaining. While taxiing out to the runway the nose of the plane was damaged. Unbeknownst to me, she sat in a plane in Jo’Burg for another two hours before leaving me and Africa. Although running, without shoes (taken off at security and no time to put them back on) through the Atlanta airport, she missed her connecting flight by a few minutes. Not to worry, though. According to her telling of the story to me a day later, the airport staff redirected her itinerary and she got home only an hour after the previously scheduled time.

Again, somehow having SO MANY MORE miles to cross than me she got home before I did. After waving goodbye in the airport I got picked up and taken to a backpackers near the airport. The transport from the airport back to Mbabane, Swaziland left the following day at 12pm. I stayed with a wonderful group of girls, who live and work in Mbabane, that evening. One of the girls was having a welcoming braii for her mother who was visiting for a couple weeks. Ironic, no? I had an all day meeting at the office Monday, shadowing and interviews at Baylor Tuesday (see “Future Plans” blog entry), and fulfilled my PSN (Peer Support Network) duties by showing up to the three day Group 8 Grief and Loss workshop on Wednesday. From that emotionally draining workshop I joined some friends at Hlane Game Park on Friday to celebrate Ali’s birthday. We were camping and it rained heavily both nights, but we still managed to have a blast! Finally, a week after my mother got on a plane to return to the States, I made it back down to my hut and home in the lowveld of Swaziland.

This concludes our tour. All tips should go to the wonderful person who made it all happen. Love and miss you Mom!